Thursday, October 08, 2009

Fulfilling the Heart of God: Growing Through Relationships

Ranch Community Church is in the second week of a series of messages, small group discussions, and personal reflection on what each of us need to do तो be in alignment with God’s vision for our church – thus fulfilling the heart of God. Below are my reflections, not my finished thoughts, on this week’s passage and questions.

As I read through Romans 16, this week’s passage in our “Fulfilling the Heart of God” journal, three things caught my attention.

Personal Relationships

First, I noted the large number of people to whom Paul was personally connected or knew about. In this one chapter I counted twenty-nine individuals or groups to whom Paul sent greetings or in some way praised. (That does not include the eight people mentioned as having been with Paul when he dictated this letter.) This is astonishing since, as far as I know, Paul had not previously visited Rome. In fact, it was only one of two churches in Paul’s letters that were not “planted” by him. I’ve never thought of Paul as a “people-person,” but it seems clear he was.

Hard Work

Second, more than once I saw phrases that involved the words “worked hard.” I also saw the words “tested and approved,” in his references to individuals. I am not exactly sure how these people worked hard or how they were tested, but it is interesting to note that hard work was a part of church life even in that first generation of Christ-followers. We sometimes choose not to do things as a church, because we feel it is asking too much of people. It’s almost as if we are trying to orient ourselves around all the other stuff that goes on in our lives rather than orienting our lives around what’s truly important, a life with God. We would never want to become insensitive to what’s going on in people’s lives, but there does seem to be some truth in the idea that we squeeze our life with God’s people in around everything else, effectively giving it a much lower priority than we should. I’m not sure we should ever apologize for expecting people to work hard for the benefit of the rest of the church.

Unity of Thought

Third, I noticed an emphasis on unity. Beginning in verse 17 Paul warns them to be on the lookout for people who “cause divisions and put obstacles in your way that are contrary to the teaching you have learned.” Obviously the warnings about division are about protecting the unity of the Christ-followers. However, the encouragement to not stray from what they had learned about the Gospel could also be seen as protecting the unity of the group. Obviously, knowing what we believe and bringing our lives into compliance with those beliefs is important for what it brings to us in terms of eternal and full life. However, striving to maintain the integrity of the truth they have learned was also important in maintaining their relationships – their unity. If they began to differ in what they believed, it would certainly have an impacted in their relationships with each other.

Their Connectedness

The theme I see, if I am not working too hard to “force” several paragraphs into one theme, is about the connectedness of these early Christ-followers to each other. They had strong personal ties, they worked hard for the benefit of the church which is the same as saying the worked hard for each other’s benefit, and they had integrity as a group as they sought to remain true to what they had learned – letting no one disrupt their unity.

Answering the Questions

None of this is possible without a relationship with Christ. Only in Christ can we put to death our selfish, prideful desires that would cause us to be only about our selves than to be about each other. Only in Christ can I become the kind of person who seeks to benefit others rather than to simply be benefitted by them. I suppose that would be my answer to the question posed for the week and the one I added last Sunday. How do we benefit from our relationship with God, and how do others benefit from their relationship with us. At the very least, it’s a start to answering the questions.

Tuesday, October 06, 2009

The Role of Praise

Today, as I was reading in Jeremiah, I came across these words.

Heal me, O Lord, and I will be healed; save me and I will be saved, for you are the one I praise. (Jeremiah 17:14, NIV)

For as long as I can remember, I’ve struggled internally when someone says to me, “Praise the Lord!” I can distinctly remember the emotional reaction I felt when a life-long family friend looked at me and said, “Praise the Lord, Eddie!” I cringed on the inside – not wanting to “praise the Lord.” Nearly three decades later I still “feel” resistance within me when I hear that phrase, and it bothers me.

We do a great disservice to those who are already Christ-followers, and to those who are not, when we focus only on behavior that is displeasing to God. The real issue, the real wound between us and God, is an attitude of not wanting to let God be God. We don’t want to surrender control. We want to think what we want to think and do what we want to do. We are too full of ourselves and convinced of our own self-importance to acknowledge a relationship of dependency upon God. That’s why my internal reaction when someone encourages me to “praise the Lord” bothers me. What is it telling me about how I am dealing with that attitude of self-sufficiency that is at the root of every sinful thought and act?

Genuine praise of God, or the lack of authentic praise, is an indication of what place God holds in our lives. To praise God is to give him credit; to lift him up. To praise God is to acknowledge who he is and, therefore, who we are. He is God; we are not. So when I sense hesitancy or reluctance within myself to give God praise, then I have to take a moment to wonder what’s going on in me that I would not want to acknowledge God as God! 

I hope my resistance to someone telling me to “praise the lord” has more to do with how those words might have been abused in my past rather than with me not wanting to give God his rightful place in my life. I don’t seem to have the same resistance when I acknowledge God’s greatness in other ways. Still, since I am human, infected with the same tendencies as every other mortal on the planet, I know resistance to letting God be God is always lurking somewhere within me; preventing me from being in a right relationship with him and experiencing the good gifts that come through that relationship; gifts like healing and salvation.

Fortunately, that very attitude is why Jesus died.  He died, not only for our forgiveness of it, but to render its negative influence in our lives powerless.  It is precisely because we struggle with a willingness to let God be God that he died.

With this in mind, is it possible that our praise of God is not just an emotional or mental response to God?  Could it also be that scripture repeatedly encourages, even commands, us to praise God for the benefit we derive from it?  After all, does God really need our praise?

God does not need our praise, and he loves us unconditionally.  Therefore, God’s instructions to us in scripture always contain benefit for us.  When we praise God, whether we feel like it or not, it functionally helps us to let God be God of our lives.  It deals with the root attitude, from which all sinful thoughts and activities in our lives flow, and reminds us who God is and who we are to be. Perhaps the praising of God is not just intellectual or emotional response.  Perhaps it is also a spiritual discipline; a gift God has given to us to practice so that he can enter more fully into our lives.  If that’s the case, then there is only one thing to say or do.  Let’s PRAISE THE LORD!

 

Thursday, October 01, 2009

Focusing on the Future

This morning I took time to do exactly what I am asking every friend and member of Ranch Community Fellowship to do. I skipped a meal and spent time with God praying, reading His Word and reflecting on the question in our “Fulfilling the Heart of God” journal. Even though I am your pastor and responsible to serve you by leading us in our journey, I also see myself as your friend and fellow traveler; someone who walks with you and not in front of, nor behind you. With that in mind, I want to share with you the thoughts that came to mind as I read this week’s journal selection.

The question I found myself asking was not exactly the one our journal proposed. The journal question for this week is, “What would our church look like in ten years if our vision for ministry was successfully accomplished?” I’m really more interested in what our church should look like, regardless of the time frame; today, ten, twenty, or more years in the future! In one form or another, that is the question that is always before me.

The suggested scripture readings for this week, 2 Timothy, Chapters 2 and 4, were loaded with images: soldier, athlete, farmer, workman, instrument/utensil, drink offering, fighter, and runner. These passages are also full of instructions, too many to list here. However, the words that seemed to jump off the page at me did fall into some themes.

A Life Fully Surrendered

Paul seems to repeatedly share with Timothy, a young pastor whom Paul deeply loves and mentors, images that talk about being completely sold out to the Gospel. He speaks of the soldier that does not get entangled in civilian affairs, the athlete who does not wander outside the boundaries of the course, the workman who obviously works hard at his task, an instrument/utensil that is useful to its master, a drink that is upended and poured out as an offering, a fighter that has fought well, a runner that has finished his race, a person who has not abandoned their faith. All of these images speak to me of a single-minded devotion to God in private and in public, or in difficult times as well as good times.

A Mind Fully Informed

Perhaps it should be so evident it goes without saying; unfortunately it is not.  God’s word and the instruction of it are central to our ministry and what we are supposed to be about.  Paul talks about being chained, but God’s word is not.  He encourages Timothy to correctly handle the word of truth.  We are to instruct in the hope that others repent. We are to preach. We are to correct, rebuke, encourage, and do the work of an evangelist.  Knowledge of God’s word is necessary for any Christ-follower to live the life God has for them.

A Heart Full of Love

Throughout these two chapters are scattered encouragements to be gentle, kind, patient, and not resentful.  Paul encourages Timothy to persevere, to endure, and be ready to take advantage of every opportunity for the Gospel.  It’s important not only to do the right things, but to do the right things in the right way.  It’s possible to not only be right, but to be DEAD right!  (I can’t help but think of 1 Corinthians 13 where we are taught that when we do things without doing them in love, we are nothing!)

Our Mission

RCF passionately loves God, each other, and the world and influences others to do the same.  That statement of our mission requires we be completely surrendered and sold out to God, have a solid understanding of what he teaches us through His word, and are not only doing the right things but doing them in the right way. 

Questions

Are we there yet?  We’re definitely on the right track, but I think we have a ways to go before we can say we are that group of people.  Fortunately for us, it seems traveling in the right direction is more important than arriving.  In some sense we can never fully arrive in this life.  While we are forgiven and set free, the sin infection is always lurking in each of us trying to influence our thoughts and actions.  I

I think the question for us is, “How do we move in that direction?”  We continue to pray, to worship, to learn what God teaches us, and to invest in each other, and to serve the world in an attitude of grace, love, mercy, and forgiveness.  Repeatedly giving ourselves to the right things with the right attitude is what we must do to be and to become the people God has created us to be.

The Future

As I look toward the future for our church, I see a group of people who are head-over-heels in love with God.  We are completely surrendered and sold out to him and nothing is more important to us than He is.  We are a people who love His word and are living by it.  Because His love and His word lives us, love will be the word that characterizes our every motive and action.

Make no mistake, you and I will be different.  RCF, Cypress and Northwest Harris County will be a better place because we are, and people will have been rescued from the destructive clutches of evil.  We will be known as a place of refuge for the desperate and a place of rest for the weary.  And it will all be because we have chosen to passionately love God, each other, and the world.